Are We Still On? Dating in the right Time of Flakes.

Are We Still On? Dating in the right Time of Flakes.

July 20, 2017

I scheduled a coffee date for 1 PM with someone on Bumble thursday. We arranged this through the dating application the night before around midnight, closing with, “I’ll see afterward you! ” The day of the date, when I was at the gym and couldn’t reply, I got a, “Still on for 1:00? ” text at 11 AM on Thursday. Hadn’t we simply confirmed less than 12 hours ago? Had we not replied at noon saying he not have shown up that it did, in fact, still work, would?

In another instance, We scheduled a night out together for the evening thursday. We confirmed the date, such as the some time location, on evening monday. On Wednesday night, I received a text asking, “Still enthusiastic about conference tomorrow night? ” Didn’t we already proceed through this? I guess I have fed up with other people’s tendency to bail (or flake or anything you desire to phone it) being projected onto future dates… in this full situation, me. More