“They Hate Me!”: Dating Some Guy With Teenagers

“They Hate Me!”: Dating Some Guy With Teenagers

By Jackie Pilossoph, Editor-in-chief, Divorced Girl Smiling, Love basically author and columnist

A few years back, a pal of mine who was simply dating a man with young ones believed to me, “Today is my boyfriend’s daughter’s 16 th birthday celebration. I obtained her a dozen flowers and a field of her favorite chocolates.”

We responded, “That’s good.”

My buddy reacted, “What does it matter? She’ll nevertheless hate me personally.”

Dating a man with young ones could be all challenging. Here are some things to consider:

1. The kids might feel if they are kind to the girlfriend like they are being disloyal to their mother.

This is just what I’ve discovered through the years. No one’s boyfriend’s kids hate them. IT’S never PRIVATE.

I have a close buddy that is inside her forties, who said that her moms and dads got divorced in senior high school and that she was really mean to her dad’s gf (who’s now his spouse) for many years. She stated she wound up apologizing towards the girl years later on, because she recognized it wasn’t the girl she disliked, it was HER experiencing resentful that her dad wasn’t along with her mother.

Listed here are a few advice on dating a man with children. More